Trading love

She wishes that phone stolen, broken beyond repair, dropped in a deep pit latrine.

Of course you will replace it, but the wish won't die...

Did you know only a handful of women are ok sharing their spouses? 

Majority are from the past and a countable number today

A woman doesn't accept competition

Be it with a car, a gadget, another woman

This generation has seen the woman competing with the phone!

For how long shall this happen?

You find that she talks to her man who keeps saying mmm, uuum, oooh to everything she says because he is in a different world.

He smiles sheepishly at his phone every now and then

Even in bed he has one hand on her and the other on his phone!

Really!

Do you actually expect nature to take its course on her ...

At the end you must force yourself in tearing her physically and emotionally

She brings this problem up often...you have a defence for your actions....Awk!

How about you keep that phone away and monitor the difference. And this means keeping it away for good when with her (having a friendly normal chat, walking the streets, eating and how about you push your phone far away while in bed. Far away that even when tempted, you feel lazy to walk up to it. Treat it like a land line! 

Try this for a month and see if it changes anything

When it was predicted many many many years that something like the hand phone would come to destroy the harmony of this planet, perhaps not many saw what that person saw! Now look at us today

The phone will virtually keep so many close to you...but draw you further away from people who "ideally matter" and are within reach

This person close to you is real, will talk to you, brush the tear away, caress your temple, hug you, feed you, wash your clothes, nurse you and will be by your side in time of need, keep your bed warm....if you choose to stay virtual; most likely you are going to end up a very lonely person in the near future... Don't run to her, him, them when that time comes

You want a better future; give space to your cellphone