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You will never win

Every time my heart throbs I long for my mother's hugs When she embraces me All the pain of this world vanishes It liquidifies And melts away When she rocks my pain away I fall asleep And wake up stronger This world is cruel We laugh with our enemies Share beds with our destroyers Run away from our comforters Take for granted those who truly love us You won't win You will never win For I shall rise and soar above the clouds When the world is taken up by storm I shall fly above the clouds and keep dry as I enjoy the sunshine The beautiful light of this world is all I desire You will never win Through the eyes of AYENYO Joanita

Living with diabetes

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Diabetes Healthcare! I think I am angry, but most definitely disappointed when it comes to diabetes support/care at the adult side  of our regional hospital. When you change a type 2's regimen from oral meds to insulin injection; there is so much that needs to happen. From explanation, counseling, education among others. Many people have not touched Syringes. So many others ( non-healthcare professionals) have not driven a syringe into a skin.... This one time when someone gets switched from oral meds to injection....you throw at them 3 syringes and a vial of mixtard (supply for a month) and tell them "go start on injections", they plead with you to guide them on what to do. You throw back words 'find out from your colleagues". Hello? Sometimes I just feel disgusted with you all that dispense meds and behave like this? Who told you to apply for that job, go cry at your uncle's feet to have you admitted for this job. Stop killing us and making certian...

Trading love

She wishes that phone stolen, broken beyond repair, dropped in a deep pit latrine. Of course you will replace it, but the wish won't die... Did you know only a handful of women are ok sharing their spouses?  Majority are from the past and a countable number today A woman doesn't accept competition Be it with a car, a gadget, another woman This generation has seen the woman competing with the phone! For how long shall this happen? You find that she talks to her man who keeps saying mmm, uuum, oooh to everything she says because he is in a different world. He smiles sheepishly at his phone every now and then Even in bed he has one hand on her and the other on his phone! Really! Do you actually expect nature to take its course on her ... At the end you must force yourself in tearing her physically and emotionally She brings this problem up often...you have a defence for your actions....Awk! How about you keep that phone away and monitor the di...

Breastfeeding Queen and Prince

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Breastfeeding has always been one of my most exciting moments of motherhood!  The little fingers and legs being pushed into my mouth...the eye lock and one feels the bond and understanding between  us growing. The faces and sounds we would make. One being a copy cat! It could be me leading or Queen leading... if one of us failed to do it right, we would go in a fit of laughter. Sweet moments! Same experience with the Prince, he was this big baby and would hold tight on to his food. He had and still has a very infectious smile. So pure and would just win one over. I miss having babies in my arms! Having such massive boobs as mine, I was always forced to sit while I fed Queen and Prince! Best to cover your breasts as you go to sleep as it might start jetting while both of you are sound asleep and if it hits the nose, the baby can easily suffocate or choke...it will kick it's legs and flay hands in an attempt to survive. If you are dead asleep, things will go bad ...sleep h...

For the sisters

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Sister, we expect so much from you up there; yes up there at the head of the table. Maybe we expect so much that we get lost in the fantasy and expect so much from you. Some of you rode on our shoulders to get there, not that we expect a payment, but we expect you to hold on to the table and pull us up. But that is far from reality for so many of you there. You squint at us, call us all sorts of names, and almost make it impossible for us to co-exist with your likes. You make our lives miserable; you show us and the world that you are in control. You think… You spend much of your energy blocking growths of others below you. Stop wielding your power like your life truly and entirely depends on it. Do you think your candle will shine brighter when you blow off mine? To you who is still a long way down there; Do not try and bring down a sister who is on her way up or at the top. Remember your tactics are not sustainable. For how long will you abuse your body and soul for...