You are your own happiness
Love is beautiful when you make it beautiful. No one is responsible for our happiness. If you find yourself in a relationship, do not expect your partner to be responsible for your happiness. This is why. See, in the beginning, your partner will pour out their brain, love, and heart to you. You will be on top of their list; always…you know topmost priority. So many sacrifices will be made for you. Nothing will be done without your knowledge. If you travel far in thought, they will be concerned. All they will care about at that time Is your happiness; are you vibrant, alive , etc? Take opportunity in this and accept it, swim in this waters. However, remember this is short-lived. Build your thick skin, or the water current will tear you apart. Remember that is only an addition to the happiness you have created within. One must be able to “live” without that extra bonus when the love’s still hot…
Remember you are chosen, but generate your happiness from within. Time will fly and your partner will become busy and “busy”.
S/he will wake up early and leave the bed without even touching you. S/he has business, remember that. Those morning kisses and gazes s/he used to make you swim in will be no more. Partner is busy. S/he will drop all the rules you set in the beginning because business has become intense and business must be discussed deep into the night. Worry not, remember to create your own happiness from within. Partner will start showing up late at home or not even show up. The business trips will quadruple. Create your own happiness.
Don’t look like a sick cat that has been beaten by rain…
Remember you have a life, a family, people who truly care about you
The ones who will create time for you amidst being busy and “busy”
Remember you have purpose
Build your thick skin; do not close yourself inside that space
Be kind to your partner, be nice; if that is your way, but don’t be ruled by your partner’s acts and lack of “love”
Always never drop what makes you happy, if traveling, reading, cooking, visiting does it for you, please do
Life is a beautiful journey made by you. Nobody is responsible for your happiness.
Create your happiness from within
Through the eyes of AYENYO Joanita
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